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Would you use a service to find the Fediverse accounts of people you know?

#EvanPoll #poll

  • Strong yes (28%, 137 votes)
  • Qualified yes (44%, 210 votes)
  • Qualified no (16%, 78 votes)
  • Strong no (10%, 49 votes)
474 voters. Poll end: 1 month ago

in reply to Evan Prodromou

Would love to find blogs etc as well – their entire identity graph / social graph
in reply to Evan Prodromou

I need the find the people I don't know yet but might like to.

So far, the one I have seems to be working pretty well. 🤪

in reply to Evan Prodromou

If I wanted to find the fediverse accounts of people I know, I would simply ask the people I know for their fediverse accounts
in reply to Evan Prodromou

It would depend on whether I thought the service was run by some entity that was trying to harvest data or was genuinely providing a free service without collecting any data.
in reply to Bruce Elrick

@virtuous_sloth Yep, this is exactly me. SO many social media platforms want to get access to all your contacts to show you where your friends are, but I'd want something more targeted and privacy-first,
in reply to Evan Prodromou

@jessamyn
I would look for what their funding model appears to be. That is a huge ball of wax, but I think many people understand the heuristics by now.

e.g.
If it is VC funded, then it will eventually sell your personal information.

If it is open source but also has a main hosted instance, I would look to how the main developers are funded and how the main instance is paid for.

If it is built as part of some federated and distributed protocol, like ActivityPub, I would likely trust.

in reply to Bruce Elrick

@virtuous_sloth I agree. I'd also be looking for a place that is located in the EU because I think part of GDPR compliance is making sure that data can be deleted on request so they are more likely to have ways of doing that (and have thought about it already) and could build it in to a tool.
in reply to Jessamyn

@jessamyn Indeed. While not prefect, at least the EU pays a nod to privacy.
in reply to Bruce Elrick

@virtuous_sloth @jessamyn a lot of interesting results. for both of you, if you knew that the service was only keeping hashes of identifying data, would that be meaningful?
in reply to Evan Prodromou

@jessamyn
I'm having trouble envisioning how it would end up connecting two people. I mean, it could see that it could match the hashes but unless we live-connect and say "match us" because I have the hash of someone's phone number and it hands one of us the IP of the other, I can't see how it connects us only using hashes.

Or are the account identifiers not hashed?

in reply to Bruce Elrick

@virtuous_sloth @jessamyn two steps. First, I go to the service and share my phone number. It confirms that I control that # by sending a text with a code. I opt in to allow anyone who knows my phone number to find my Fediverse handle. The service stores the hash of my phone number and my Fediverse handle.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

@virtuous_sloth @jessamyn second, you let an app look through your phone contacts. It hashes each phone number and asks, do you have a Fediverse handle for the person whose phone number hashes to this value. It says yes and returns my Fediverse handle, which the app uses to initiate a connection.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

@jessamyn
Ah, ok, I was not incorrect in my thinking. They need to store at least your account identifier in the clear to be able to send it to matches. That and learning the phone number for at least as long as it takes to prove you own it and likely forever to be able to repudiate it later if you drop that number, it later gets reassigned, and the new owner wants to use it with the service. At that point the new user would want you to not 'have' it.

So not nothing but fairly minimal.

in reply to Rémi du Nord

@remidu would it help them join if they could find friends who were already here, like you, automatically?
in reply to Evan Prodromou

@Lazarou I did exactly that during the November 2022 twitter migration, before Dilbert Stark killed the external API and the find-your-twitter-tribe-in-the-fediverse services.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

No, the Fediverse is where I come to get away from the people I know IRL.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

Nope. If I want to know the fediverse accounts of someone I know, I'll ask them. I neither need or want a service which aggregates contact information, especially given the tendency of such services to become sources of spam and scamming, whether intentionally or not.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

Could you give some specifics about the characteristics of such 'service'? 🤔 Thanks in advance! 🙏
in reply to rival

@rival no. if your answer depends on the specifics, say "qualified yes" or "qualified no". thats what those options are for.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

Ok, one of those was my choice already. Thanks a lot for the answer. Kind regards!
in reply to Evan Prodromou

You mean by uploading my complete list of contacts to some shady online service? Sounds great. Not.
in reply to Martin Vogel

@mardor what if your contacts never left your local device? what if you knew the operators of the service, at least by reputation? what if client and server are open source?
in reply to Evan Prodromou

Still no. I would have to provide personal information of other people to this service. This information was not meant to be given away.
What might be imaginable was a download of a list of all users of a service and a local search for matching accounts.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

I see, I am a bit traumatized by existing social networks whose aim is to collect as much personal information as possible. Hashes should work.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

I probably wouldn't use it directly (because if people I know have joined the Fediverse, it's usually either that I met them there or I was the one who made the join 😅)

But I'd still sign up to make things easy for other people whom I get onboard, so that *they* can easily find new users the way they're used to 🔍

(In fact it's the same reason I've registered my number on #Quicksy for #XMPP folks)

in reply to Evan Prodromou

I answered qualified yes, but rethinking it, I think it's realistically a strong no. I like the idea, but I like having boundaries regarding who follows me among people I know in real life.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

Like many people here, I've used tools like @debirdify to kick-start my social graph on Mastodon using my X connections.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

That is a lot harder now since the big changes in the x API tos.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

There are a lot of other sources of info about social connections, tho. FB, ig, LinkedIn, and phone contact list are a few.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

I think trust and consent are key. Trustable entity running the service. Opt in only ( I don't think it could work reliably otherwise.). open source. No permanent storage of data, and preferably no in the clear data shared with the service at all.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

I think it could be very compatible with an invitation service. Connect to people I know who have Fediverse handles registered. For those who don't have handles, optionally (opt in) send an email or text inviting them to join and automatically connect.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

I think this only works with exact match on a verifiable id, like phone no, email addy, x or ig handle, FB user id. Not on name match, location, etc.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

One could try bootstrapping from an OPML export from one’s feed reader, by traversing the alternative profiles of those blogs
in reply to Evan Prodromou

I think there might be a selection bias, especially with such a short poll duration: anyone who hasn’t found enough of a social graph probably isn’t on here frequently enough to have seen the poll. I like not having algorithmic promotion but it means news spreads slower, and I think the death of Twitter also lead many people to reconsider their relationship with social media in general.
in reply to Evan Prodromou

like in most things, I feel deeply unqualified, but I'm picking "qualified no" because I know that sort of thing has definitely helped a lot of people out in the earlier Twitter migrations.

For me personally, it's strong no, though.